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The True Meaning of Safety


Safety and A Course in Miracles

On our journey, we often equate safety and security with material possessions—money, houses, and external validations. Yet, true safety has nothing to do with these changing conditions. A Course in Miracles reminds us that "Safety is the complete relinquishment of attack." This profound statement invites us to explore a deeper understanding of what it means to feel secure.


Imagine for a moment how safe you truly feel without money or a house. The instinctive urge to protect our bodies and egos leads us into a cycle of fear and defence. We spend our lives building walls—both physically and emotionally—to shield ourselves from perceived threats. We lock doors, enforce laws, and even raise armies in an attempt to guard against external attacks on our bodies. Simultaneously, we create boundaries around our egos, defending our self-worth against criticism and rejection.


However, this constant vigilance can leave us feeling more vulnerable than ever. Our egos are so sensitive that even the slightest word or unforeseen circumstance can send us spiraling into chaos. In this state of fear-driven defence, we mistakenly believe that by controlling the outside world—what we let in or keep out—we can secure peace within ourselves.


Yet true safety arises not from external defences but from an internal shift in perception. When we release the need for attack—whether against ourselves or others—we open ourselves up to genuine security that transcends material conditions. It is in letting go of these defences that we find strength; it is through embracing love over fear that we cultivate an unshakeable sense of safety.


As you navigate your path forward, consider this: What if you could redefine your understanding of safety? What if it were rooted not in what you possess but in who you are? Embrace the idea that real security comes from within—a place where love flourishes free from judgment and fear. In doing so, you'll discover a profound sense of peace that no amount of money or physical protection could ever provide.


Rev. Lora Nedkov

 
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